Madison Missina is a Sydney based private escort and adult industry model. This is her blog of her random ramblings, stories, tips, updates and philosophies of her career in the adult industry.
By madisonm, 29-Nov-2012 03:20:00
GFE vs PSE
I get asked all the time what's included in your GFE service or your PSE service. Ive also noticed that other ladies have a two tiered service, GFE vs PSE. So I can see that there is a bit of confusion out there. So I thought I would right this blog to explain the difference between PSE and GFE and really what it is.
First of all GFE and PSE are not services at all. They are not something tangible that can be done like anal or oral. They are experiences. They are giving you an indication of how the services will be performed. They will also give you an indication of how the lady sees her role. You as a punter should also think about how you're going to get the best experience and focus on finding a Lady that matches.
The GFE, Girlfriend Experience.
This is my preference, my speciality.
This is about creating a genuine and mutual experience. It's about chemistry, building a rapport, establishing a relationship.
The Lady will take time chatting to you over a drink. Gradually and subtly when the time is right she will begin to seduce you. Pleasure will be mutual and intimate. There will be a natural flow through the stages and there will be lots of cuddling at the end.
Ideally you should feel like you are with your girlfriend.
The GFE is best suited to those looking for a connection, for first time punters, people who are shy or nervous.
The PSE, Porn Star Experience.
As someone who has filmed porn, I can tell you that porn sex is different to normal sex. It is thought out, it looks good, it's staged. Intimacy and a connection may happen but that is not the goal.
A PSE is about creating your fantasy.
The booking should always commence with a quick discussion on exactly what you want to get out of the booking. The Lady will then be the actress and director creating your perfect scene.
Depending on how much needs to be achieved in the time, the pleasure will not always be mutual. Remember her goal is to create the perfect scene for you, to perform the services for you.
The sex positions will be about looking hot. There will be lots of moaning, exaggerated pleasure. The pace will generally be faster.
From a Lady's perspective they generally frame themselves as PSE because they like to play a role. They like to act, create a scene and have separation between their working lives and themselves.
This experience is great for those who want to experience a mind blowing sexual service. Who have particular ideas about what they want to get out of a booking. It's also great obviously for filming and photos.
There are a number of ladies who offer both types of experience, me being one of them. However in my experience a lady will always have her preference and will almost always play to that.
Now let's talk about sexual services. How are they affected by the PSE or the GFE.
Let's take fisting for example. Traditionally it's quite a hard core sex act. It would be suited to a PSE.
However in a GFE it's a slow sensual experience. It's the next step from fingering. It's about the connection and trust between you and your lady do that she relaxes enough to allow you in.
You see exact same sexual act but two very different experiences.
In a nutshell the main difference is with a GFE it is a more natural and genuine interaction. With a PSE it’s an act. Both are about mind blowing sex just with different approaches.
1. 03-Dec-2012 06:38:00 by Mark brown
This has to be one of the most insightful and well written blogs I have read in ages.
thank you for sharing :-)
2. 05-Feb-2013 11:06:00 by Adam
Umm , i'll take the PSE anyday of the Week :)
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